phew!...that felt good :)

What is with this idea called "marriage"...n why do we need to have a wedding..is something that somehow never got into this small head of mine. So, these 2 people get together..they think they like each other and are daring enough to think that they want to spend most of the time with each other and, that this whole time together will not make them hate each other eventually. What is so great about this thought process that the respective parents have to start talking, and arrange for a wedding, discuss about how the so called wedding would go, where, what, how to, who etc etc...
In effect, I think that this is a completely useless way of passing time by parents..apparently,it involves few months preparation and a whole lot of "spending" and with it, lots of altercations,arguments, ego hassles etc that go with it...for what?..for a Charade or this drama if I may call it..to show off to the world that we have so much money and we can afford (even if we cant afford, we "borrow" money) such and such place, so much gold or other precious metal jewelery, fine silk clothes, a variety of cuisines, a hotel to make the guests stay, gifts for people whom we hardly speak to, etc...hey!..n not to forget the good lord above!...even he is showered with this expensive sort of "love & devotion" suddenly on this eve of a wedding!...phew!...and I am sure I am missing a lot more of this royal preparation in the above para..but anyway, you get the point right?...

And now comes my point of view..
Okay, so these 2 people have got together and also think they want to spend a lot of their left over time in this life with each other...SO WHAT!..What are you celebrating here? And why does this world need to see how much you can afford? Will they come to help you when you do not have the money?..NO! they wont!...they will come to you only when you have it!..If that is not enough, it is the elderly people who are most "kicked" about this whole wedding affair..!..They sit right there, ordering their kids to do so and so for the grand daughters & sons...My questions is, if you are so bloody enthusiastic about the wedding, be my guest and do it all over again...YOURSELF!...but just leave your grands alone!...PLEASE!..don't put us through this whole torture in the name of "we will be happy"..what the hell man!..haven't you been happier before this wedding? and what do YOU have to show to the world..If you want to have fun..go ahead and get married all over again!..don't put us through the ordeal damn it!..You have to understand that this is NOT your function..it is ours!..so let us just be!
And if you really think that your daughters & sons have so much money to show off to the world, then go arrange for a huge theater,get a tank of dirty filthy drain water.., show to the world you have soooooooooo much cash to drown in the drain!..and every person will applaud you! but KEEP OFF from other people's lives and let the protagonists of the function decide what they want to do and what not...just let them be happy and you find your happiness somewhere ELSE..after all it is THEIR day and not yours! Keep your stupid archaic ideas with you..your time is over...not let the youngsters live a it!..Do not poke your stupid head in their business for heaven's sake! Stop being materialistic and think about the Lord..it is about time you learn!

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I am very confused..as usual..
n this time it is not about some problems..i was only ruminating over certain things..it is so amazing that you get to meet a lot of people in the course of time..some you want to let go of immediately... some you want to keep for a little while and some for eternity. There are also times when this "eternity" category of people make promises and claims and with the wink of the eye vanish from the face of the earth.When you sit at home and get bored and you have nothing else to do in life, you tend to let your mind remenise over such people and instances in the past and wonder I could have done this differently..thi is where probable things went wrong..Good, I took that decision etc. etc... But somewhere every person you have encountered does leave a mark on you..Well, not EVERY person, I should say, the people you want to let mark your life...Okay, sometimes you have people u don't want to mark your life , also mar your life (What a complex sentence!..hope, it makes sense)..anyway, and then you resign to destiny and console yourself by saying "everything happens for good reason"...
There are people who pop in from your past and force you to go back to those days and remember details and want to know why and how and what happened with such and such individual... Now what is their problem in life i say..probably lack of gossip!..makes u feel sad..sad is not the right word I think..it is incomplete?..no..not really..life seems almost complete n boring to me now...jus make u feel empty and you feel like goin back to tht time in the past and changing it a lil bit..not regretting what you did also..but i really dont know how to say it... :(